100000000x hotter than any kind of sex you’ll ever have… no seriously.

All these blogs I see that have random toss-ins of people sexin’ it up are probably WAAAAAYYYYYYY out reality >_>

How much of that are we actually convinced of?
Do we hold that as an expectation?

Often this stuff isn’t even porn (well, you can’t see anything)
It’s just two people who happen to be really hot, really passionate, really skilled and … apparently everything you & I want to be.

how many people stress themselves out trying to be perfect… because they know that if they aren’t the “goddess” on the hump.gif they wont ever experience love so “passionate/thrilling/whatever”. These things are right in front of people… Where as many years ago… no… they weren’t… so I’d imagine the stress to be “so goddamn sexy” was well diminished.

I was going to put this in Doing Life… but then it got a little more thoughtful

Seems like a pretty huge sexual strain on kids these days.
Yeah, you can have sex early. But you run risks of diseases, or if you’re not for abortion, babies. Then if you’re even more strict, you’ll want to wait until marriage.

The issue is you have sexual desire, but not enough time to find a safe partner that you like and that you’re capable of supporting. Of course those requirements degrade the more you don’t care about them or have an alternative solution, but for those who do have such requirements, they are backed up to higher and higher ages because of 1 major thing, the education system.

With the education system you have to wait, (if your’e standards are, marriage and or supportability) I’m not just talking about the mandatory k-12. College is included, because no one wants to live their days selling pizza for eternity. Yeah, it could work, but it’s not rewarding enough. And YES, some people have lead AWESOME lives, but most people respect the odds and get an education. BAM! Now you’re done with college, 22, able to support a girl with a kid and wanting to get married. OH WAIT! You need to actually have the job first. Wanna marry the girl and enter your line of work at the same time? More stress for you my friend.

Let’s say you’re okay with abortion or have baby-proof sex practices, you’re careful with who you have sex with, and waiting for marriage is nothing for you.
Then your sexually related mental health will probably just do fine.